Engaged on Valentine’s Day? Why You Should Consider a Prenup
Valentine’s Day is one of the year’s most romantic days, making it the perfect time to pop the question. If you’re newly engaged—congratulations! This is an exciting milestone in your life, filled with planning, celebrating, and looking forward to your future together. But as you prepare for marriage, you may also wonder how to protect yourself and your partner in the long run.
One topic that more and more engaged couples are discussing these days is prenuptial agreements (prenups). While it may not be the most romantic conversation, a prenup is a practical and proactive way to start your marriage with clarity and transparency.
What is a Prenup, and Why Should You Consider One?
A prenuptial agreement is a legal document that outlines how you and your spouse will handle property, assets, debts, and spousal support in the event of a divorce. While no one enters a marriage expecting it to end, having a prenup in place ensures that both parties are on the same page and that there are no surprises down the road. Here’s why a prenup might be a smart decision for your marriage:
1. It Protects Your Financial Interests
If you or your partner have significant assets, a business, or future inheritances, a prenup helps define what remains separate property versus community property in the marriage. This means you get to decide ahead of time how things will be divided instead of relying on state laws that may not align with your wishes.
2. It Clarifies Spousal Support Expectations
A prenup can also outline spousal support (alimony) in case of a divorce. Rather than leaving it up to the courts, you and your fiancé can determine what is fair before the marriage begins.
3. It Reduces Future Conflict
Divorces can be stressful, emotional, and expensive—especially when there are financial disagreements. By making these decisions together now, you and your partner avoid unnecessary disputes later.
4. It’s a Practical Step Towards a Stronger Marriage
Contrary to the myth that a prenup signals a lack of trust, it actually fosters open communication and honesty about finances before you get married. Marriage is a partnership, and discussing these matters beforehand can strengthen your relationship by ensuring both partners are on the same page.
How To Get a Prenup Drafted or Reviewed
You don’t have to navigate the process alone if you’re newly engaged and considering a prenup. At JWB Family Law, we help couples draft clear, fair, and legally sound prenuptial agreements that set them up for a secure and confident future together. Already have a prenup drafted? Our team can review it to ensure it aligns with your best interests and meets legal requirements.
Start your marriage with clarity and peace of mind. Call JWB Family Law at (619) 234-6123 or click here to schedule a consultation. We’re here to help!
